Negative Comments

Do you have people talking negatively either to your face or behind your back? 

Could it be someone you know or even a family member?

Of course it's not very nice, AND I'll bet if I were a gambling man I'd bet that you would NEVER do this to them.

Sure it's hurtful, sure it stings, yet I want you to get excited about this. Now your probably saying to yourself, has Cary lost his mind?

No I haven't. As a matter of fact it has been an unbelievable breakthrough for me when I read the phrase,

" Change the way you look at things, and the things you look at change." 

Powerful words!

These negative words they're saying could be because you want to start a new business, get in better shape, or even better yourself by learning about Personal Development.

When I suggested that you get excited about this, it's because you are doing something to better your life, and the people making disempowering comments are scared. Scared that you are actually doing something with your life. That you are tired of things remaining the same in your life, and that the naysayers would have to do some work in bettering their lives, yet they're to lazy to do that. So instead of them doing the work, they would rather criticise and condemn. They want you to hang in the swill with them.

Get excited when you hear comments that are less than inspiring. Why? Because you are on the right track. Ha!

Civil comments appreciated and welcome always.

Keep Moving Forward (KMF)

PLANet B?

PLANet B?

No matter who you are, no matter what you believe in. If we don't start to come together as human beings, and treat each other, as well as all living things with kindness, compassion, and respect then it's ALL for nothing. 

Look at the way we treat each other. 

How we speak to each other. All of the fighting amongst ourselves. 

Where's the honour, integrity, manners, kindness, and compassion these days?

Look at the way we treat the animals on this planet. 

Look at the way we treat the Earth.

These things I've asked you to look at are unsustainable on our present course.

I read that the commercial fishing on the west coast of the US has been suspended. You won't read about it in the main stream press because they don't want you to know about it. They don't want to frighten you.

How about the collapse of the bee population? If all the bees go; we're gone ourselves. 

How about the Factory Farming that is not only cruel and unusual punishment to the animals, but it's ruining the ecosystem. The chemicals they put into the animals are ruining you. Unsustainable.

I'm not trying to bring anyone down. I'm trying to have you take a look as to what's really going on.

I've been quiet long enough. I care about my family. I care about you. I care about the animals. I care about the planet. Once we ruin this planet, there is NOWHERE ELSE TO GO!!!!!!!!!!!

Here's a link to look at. Check out the 30 minute video, it's the best eye opening thing that you'll see.

http://usawatchdog.com/geo-engineering-doing-most-destruction-to-planet-dane-wigington/

There must be a change, and we are the one's to be the start of the change. It has to start somewhere. 

Who do you know? 

Who do you know that you can pass this idea on to? Could you talk about it with your family, friends, co - workers?

Just start.

Keep Moving Forward - KMF

If you could do better, should you?

If you could do better, should you?

We ALL have personal choice, yet isn't this a great question to ask yourself, and others?

 You can plug in just about anything here couldn't you?  How about health, relationships, the way you speak to others, the way you speak to yourself, money, etc....

I'll just speak about personal development; and, should you do better.

If you've been coming here and reading my posts, My intention is for you to receive inspiration, to learn about yourself and others, and to get value.

Did it possibly get you started on your never ending journey to personally developing yourself? Did it add to your journey?  Did it jump start it? How about re-jump start it? Did it plant a seed?

If you came here, that's great. I appreciate it more than words can describe.

 What would be even better is if you go and add other people, books, phrases, videos or whatever to your life so that you can continue to grow in your quest to better yourself, and "Keep Moving Forward," (KMF.)

As long as you get that, the ideas that add value into your life are what's most important. This should be paramount.

I believe everyone should invest in themselves by personally developing themselves!

The fact that the message comes from me isn't important.

What's important is what you pick up from it that helps you fine tune your life going forward into the future. That's what matters most to me.

Comments welcomed and encouraged.

Keep Moving Forward ...KMF!

Self Talk

Self Talk

What kind of self talk do you tell yourself each and every day? Is it empowering?
If it isn't, why isn't it more empowering?

How do you change it?

Did you know that you can't hold two opposing thoughts in your mind at the same time?

Example: You say to yourself that, "I'm not worthy." You can't think that you're not worthy, and hold in your mind that you ARE worthy at the same time.  It's impossible.  Try it, and see for yourself.

You can change your disempowering self talk by replacing it with empowering affirmations.
I am worthy
I am deserving
I am confident

Here's how to start changing your mindset.  Don't let the fact that it's simple, fool you into believing that it won't work.

Write these 3 affirmations down. Look at them many times a day for 30 days straight.

All you're doing is replacing one habit (Bad) with a (Good) habit.

Stick with it.  Little by little you'll start to see a change in your life.  Once you see this change you'll want more and more in your life.  More, meaning a positive change in your life.

Take consistent massive action. The results will take care of themselves.

Keep Moving Forward

Who do you know that's Struggling in any area of their Life?

I've been listening to a lot of friends and people in general lately about how they are struggling in one area or another in their lives

 If you know someone like this, ask them questions, and be a good listener. If you want to give advice as to how to help them and their situation, ask them first. Say, " Would it be okay if...."

If they say yes, great. If they say no, great again.

You shouldn't feel hurt or rejected that they didn't want your advice, instead feel honoured that they trusted you enough to tell you what's going on in their lives.

Be there for them. Actively listen to them. Look them in the eyes. If you're not sure about something that they said, ask them to clarify so you can better understand.

Some might ask what the listener gets out of this, and to that you say - the satisfaction of knowing that I helped someone today, and didn't expect anything in return. How often does that happen these days? How many times has that happened to you today, this week, this month?

Do you want to make your life great and fulfilling? This is a wonderful way to start.

Keep Moving Forward.

Walking Dead

"Some people die at 25 and aren't buried until 75."

- Benjamin Franklin 1706-1790

What a switched on guy he was.

 He knew that some people (actually it's most people now isn't it?) stopped growing in their lives for one reason or another. That's a shame because we all have so much potential.

Sure there are a ton of excuses.

As a matter of fact, I used to use a lot of them - emphasis on used to. How did I turn it around you say? I started with the basics. I wrote down my goals, took MASSIVE ACTION, and looked at my results.

 I know, I know, you are all sick and tired of hearing about it, yet what my mentor asked me was inspiring.  He said, " If you know all of this stuff, then why aren't you getting the results you need?" He probed deeper. "Do you even have a goal list written down?" I said that it was in my mind. "Not good enough" he said. You need to write it down and look at it many times a day.

After I finally wrote down my goals, and looked at them many times a day, along with learning about personal development on a consistent basis, I noticed that I have more passion for life. I'm extremely excited about my future. I go to bed late, and wake up early jumping out of bed ready to get the day happening.

"Get busy living, or get busy dying,"
Josey Wales - a character that Clint Eastwood played in the movie, The Outlaw and Josey Wales.

I know I said I was gong to talk about Time travel today. I'll save that for a video that I'm going to do.

Be flexible with yourself, and your life.

Keep Moving Forward

Burn Your Ship

In 1519 an explorer named Hernan Cortez landed in Veracruz (Mexico), to begin his great conquest.

He had 600 men, approximately 16 horses, and 11 ships. That's not much considering that in the previous 600 years, better equipped armies had failed at plundering the gold, silver, jewels and other valuable objects that were in Veracruz.

When Cortez and his men landed on the beach they partied for a while drinking lots of rum when suddenly, the men noticed that ALL 11 ships were on fire. As the men watched all 11 ships burn to the water, I wonder what must have been going on in the crews minds.

I'm sure they thought, how are we going to get home.

Cortez looked at his men and said, "We'll fight and be victorious, or fight and die here!"  WOW! What a manic he was.

History shows that they fought and WON. It had never been done in the previous 600 years with better equipped armies.

Why? Why did it work?

Because he cut off any other avenue to achieve the result that he wanted.

It's easy to give up or fail when the going gets a little tough. We all hold onto that escape option don't we? Myself included.

We must learn to ACT in spite of those fears.
Set your Goals.
Take MASSIVE ACTION!
Enjoy the results.

Your success in any area of your life is assured if you follow this principle.
Burn Your Ships!

Tomorrow: Did you know that you can time travel?

Keep Moving Forward.